When two living beings are involved, requires an approach with feelings, and perhaps pretend to remain open and attentive to the reality of what is happening in a dynamic between the two, if we do not, choose a life lived with the feelings and not mechanically. In the long run, the beauty that comes from the complexity will be lost and no longer present within the boundaries established by the rules, the dynamic quality of a relationship is created only through mutual agreement and understanding, not with the rules, will not. If we follow your rules our hearts are not free to dance in response to each other: trudging along, trying to imitate a waltz. At the end we just disappointed that the rules created within a relationship: an unsatisfactory and static version of the real thing, not expanding nor warms our souls.
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After all, it does not matter what a trainer says, a book, a veterinarian or any other source of advice. The final arbiters to determine whether an approach works or does not work must be the two individuals involved in the report.
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